The Worst Day in Family Law Mediation is Better Than the Best Day in Litigation

I recently saw an article with a similar title as the one above and decided to put in my two cents on the topic.  As a long time Arizona attorney and mediator, I have gotten to see the range of experiences in both litigation and mediation.  Most mediations go swimmingly well – the parties reach a full agreement in a matter of a few hours.  The parties are able to end their marriage or former relationship respectfully.  Where there are children involved, and an ongoing relationship is necessary, … [Read more...]

Divorce in Arizona your First Step

If you are reading this article, you are probably considering a divorce in Arizona or helping a loved one who is faced with one.  My purpose in writing articles is to let people know they have a choice in how they end their marriage.  Many people assume that the only way to get divorced is to engage in an adversarial process.  That is not true.  While you can use the traditional litigation process, that is not the only option. Traditional litigation involves one party filing a Petition … [Read more...]

Can We Mediate Even If We Don’t Get Along?

Some people think they cannot mediate their disputes because they do not get along with the other party to the dispute.  In fact, mediation is the perfect format to address conflict for people who cannot communicate, who push each other’s buttons or who simply don’t care much for the other party.   The only exception is the situation that there is a significant power imbalance, perhaps due to physical violence, and one party is not able to freely negotiate and communicate because of that … [Read more...]

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