The Worst Day in Family Law Mediation is Better Than the Best Day in Litigation

I recently saw an article with a similar title as the one above and decided to put in my two cents on the topic.  As a long time Arizona attorney and mediator, I have gotten to see the range of experiences in both litigation and mediation.  Most mediations go swimmingly well – the parties reach a full agreement in a matter of a few hours.  The parties are able to end their marriage or former relationship respectfully.  Where there are children involved, and an ongoing relationship is necessary, … [Read more...]

Ground Rules To Help Make Your Arizona Mediation Successful

Mediation works best when both parties come in with the right mindset.  The mediator will guide you in this process, but there are things you can do that will help make your mediation successful: 1. Be respectful. It makes the mediation a lot more pleasant, and it facilitates open communication that is more likely to result in settlement.  Mediation works when both parties are willing to listen and understand the other’s interests and needs. 2. Be reasonable. Make and consider offers that … [Read more...]

Using a Mediator to Get Divorced in Arizona When You Were Never Married

There are over five million unmarried couples living together. U.S. Census Bureau of 2000. This figure includes hundreds of thousands of gay couples in Arizona to whom the government has denied the right to marry, as well as millions of straight couples who choose not to marry.  In relevant part, the 2000 Census found: UNMARRIED-PARTNER HOUSEHOLDS Total 5,230,703 100.0 Male and female 87.4 Both male 332,645 6.4 Both … [Read more...]

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